Since then the result has been repeated in other countries involving a diversity of participants. The findings of these studies have been remarkably consistent: many people dread talking to strangers, but when they do, they tend to come away feeling good: happier, less lonely, more optimistic, more empathetic, and with a stronger sense of belonging to their communities. Several experts, as well as members of the public who talk to strangers, told me that doing it actually makes them feel safer, providing ready affirmation that the people around them are well meaning.